Tuesday, September 1, 2015

How To Face Life Again With Help From A Therapist In Downtown Toronto

By Daphne Bowen


It is both ironic and sad that, in this day and age of astonishing advances in the field of medicine, so many people are still disabled in some way or another. It is especially people that are crippled by the pressures of life, trauma and loss that find it increasingly difficult to function properly. Such people struggle from one day to the next. They often find life joyless and hostile. When this is the case, it is time to make an appointment with a therapist in downtown Toronto.

Therapists deal with a very large variety of problems. Each case is unique. Some people simply feel as if their lives are worthless. They feel unfulfilled and they feel helpless. In many cases people simply need an objective professional person to use as a sounding board. By talking about their feelings they are forced to examine themselves and in this way they often find solutions.

Many other patients see a therapist because they are trying to deal with issues that are causing them pain, trauma and a reduced quality of life. They may struggle to cope with the death of a loved one, or they may be unable to adapt to changed circumstances such as a divorce, the loss of a job, reduced financial circumstances and even illness or a disability.

Group therapy is becoming increasingly popular and often produces better results than one on one therapy. Many people suffering from personality disorders, addiction and behavioural problems think that they are alone in their suffering, abnormal and an exception to the rule. Being part of a group of patients that all suffer similar problems allow them to share their thoughts and to form mutually supportive relationships.

Those seeking help should make sure that they choose a counsellor that is not only qualified, but also experienced in dealing with the type of problem that led to the need for counselling. Many professionals have experience in a wide variety of conditions, but many others specialize in very specific fields such as trauma counselling. It is also important to make sure that the chosen counsellor instils confidence.

It is very important to understand that therapy may require time before satisfactory results can be obtained. In some cases it may take years. The counsellor is not a miracle worker, nor can he solve the problems of his clients. His role is to act as a guide and a mentor. He helps his patients to examine their own problems and to explore possible solutions for those problems.

One of the biggest reasons why people never ask for help is because they still think that professional therapy is reserved for the mad, the unstable a d the weak. This is absolutely a fallacy. Only strong people are able to acknowledge the fact that they are having problems that will require professional help to solve. Facing the rigours of therapy also requires discipline and inner strength.

In many ways, psychological problems can be even more debilitating that a physical illness. The symptoms are more subtle and the sufferer often does not even realize that he has a problem and that the problem can be overcome with professional help. Unfortunately, such people often also have a negative effect on the lives of those close to him.




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